Romance is the eternal subject for most of the poets. Romance, the life giving force. Romance: it changes perceptions! True romance makes a dull night a night of poetic thoughts. Romance turns an ordinary flower into a lover’s gift to be preserved forever. Romance produces letters that are saved for generations. Romance makes everything seem happy and cheerful.
Romantic feelings change perception. One who had never thought of reading poetry, begins writing one. That is romance. One who is in romantic love will have no complaints with the world. Even if the traffic does not move for hours, the romantic lover excuses everyone. That is romance.
Romance changes the way we look at the world. We see only good and every bad thing becomes either good or tolerable for us. Romance makes us magnanimous in thoughts. Romantic feelings make us sit alone and live in our own dreams. We need no one except ourselves to enjoy the thoughts of our romance. We want to be left alone and feel total peace and joy. During romance, every lip smiles, and every eye shines with the light of love.
Romance brings a new God in our life: Our beloved. Some romantics are ready to kiss the place where his/her sweetheart stepped. Romance is to be experienced and not talked about. Romance brings more hormonal changes in the body than any medicine and has a definite effect on the heartbeats. They increase at the thought of the beloved. That is romance and to be in a true romance is to experience the joy of heaven.
There are many emotions and most of us experience all of them except romance. Emotions such as anger, nervousness, sadness and others like these are experienced by all of us. Only a lucky few experience true romance.
There is a popular story in India of two romantic lovers. Laila and Majnu. Laila was the princess and Majnu was the son of a washerman. Once, it so happened that Majnu’s father asked him to deliver clothes to the palace. There Majnu happened to see Laila and he fell madly in love with her. From that day on, he forgot everything including food, and was only asking for Laila. Some days passed, and this news that Majnu had gone madly in love with Laila reached the king.
The king asked his Prime Minister about what could be done to help Majnu in his distress. The Prime Minister suggested that if Majnu wanted to buy anything from any shop, he could buy it for free. The palace would pay the shopkeeper.
This news brought in many imposter Majnus. They bought things from all the shops and pretended to be Majnu. The palace then started getting bills from the shops. The king was more worried now and again consulted his Prime Minister. His suggestion was simple – declare that Majnu will be killed after seven days by the palace. This announcement made all the actors run away for their life. Only the original Majnu was left. He had no desire to live unless Laila would be with him. This made the king think again and he decreed that Majnu marry Laila.
Majnu got Laila because he wanted nothing except her. His own life was worthless to him. What mattered was only Laila. This is true romantic love
Communication is so important in romance. Romancing is not a science, but an art. When you talk to your beloved, you talk not only with your words, but with your eyes and your body language.
Everything takes part in communication with your sweetheart. How does one talk to one’s beloved? Most of the lovers swoon at the sight of their beloved. How do we expect them to talk? But their sweetheart wants to talk and they want to talk. They both want to share everything in each other’s life. They share their dreams, they share their agonies and pains and they share their goals and failures. They share everything, because they are two bodies, but one heart.
Romance has its own flavor, a different flavor. Romance is a different emotion compared to all other emotions. It’s much different compared to emotions such as anger etc. They are all negative, but romance is a positive emotion or feeling. In romance, one ignores every fault of his/her sweetheart and only finds everything good and glorifies it. In love, the afternoon sun is as beautiful as the sunset. Such is the wonder of romance that it changes a person totally.
Coming back to communication, how does one do it in romance? Does one convey love every single day? Does one talk only of love and nothing else. Otherwise it may kill the romantic mood! Does one only dream of good things and avoid every talk of anything negative? What and how does one communicate while romancing? Yes, it is true that most of the romantic lovers talk only of positive things and avoid everything negative. It is also true that talk is mostly about love, because they are romancing. Isn’t it? It is true that the couples dream of great things and avoid contemplating any negatives.
Romance is different. In romancing there is no place for anything that may kill the mood. Romance means talking of the moon, and the sun and glorious sunsets. Romance does not think about the fate of fallen flowers, but only admires the beauty of flowers smiling on the branch. Romance is different and it is great. The world already has innumerable problems, and romance is sorely needed to create a positive atmosphere. Romance is a dream. If you have someone to share true romance with, never give up on that dream. True romantics never give up on love.
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