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Welcome to True Romantic! Thank you for visiting my site! There are articles
on many of the pages and links. Enjoy!
True Love begins with True Romance…and Life is too short to live without
Love…so on this site you will find all the help you need to find and keep your
true love. First is my guide to living happily ever after. Enjoy!
The True Romantic’s Guide to Living Happily Ever After
It has been said that women marry men thinking they will change (with help
from them, no doubt) but they don’t, and men marry women thinking they won’t
change but they do.
Women are by nature usually focused on nurturing for the first part of their
lives…it is only possible to bear children while you are young after all. But men
are focused on building their fortune or chasing their dreams and less likely to
be focused on family.
Now before anyone gets up in arms, I know that is sexist and a complete
stereotype; I know that many men stay home and nurture, I know that some
women put off child rearing and some do both, career and children, etc,etc.
I am only talking about the biological drives of the sexes as a median
group. So women often want to help their children, and overly help their
partner as they are in their nurturing years. Thus they will constantly
try to get their man to change “for their own good.”
Here’s what I know is true. It won’t work. You’ve got to go with the
idea expressed by Rita Rudner in her comedy act. To keep romance alive in
marriage, you must accept him exactly as he is, and then pretend he’s
Well it works for men too, so try it. Accept her exactly as she is, and if
you must, pretend she’s someone else.
I have told a few couples this little secret, individually and privately
of course, and guess what? It brings a new calm and acceptance that is very
romantic. Partners are always communicating at an emotional level below the
words. True acceptance can be felt and it permeates everything.
So try this the next time you are upset with your partner for not doing
what you want. If it’s truly not a life changing event, just decide to forgive
him or her and accept him or her as she is. It is possible that you also annoy
your partner sometimes. Light a candle and let your anger drift away with the
breeze of the heated air. Life is short. Love is eternal.
© True Romantic.Info, 2015
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Let Romance Motivate You
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What is Romance
You Can Be Romantic
How to Be Romantic
Rekindle the Fire and Get Your Chemistry Back
5 ways to Keep Romance Alive That Don’t Cost a Fortune
Touched By An Angel, by Maya Angelou
We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love’s light
we dare be brave
And suddenly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.